#1. Be something different.
Every guy on every dating app leads with the same array of first texts:
“Hey, what’s up?”
“I don’t know what else to say, but you’re very pretty.”
While both will get you answers, they aren’t exactly mind-expanding first messages. Every girl has had both of these things sent to her many times in her life. You’re just adding to the pile. The chances of her falling for you from something so unoriginal are low.
Do Now: Scour through her dating profile or social media page and try to connect something that she’s listed. Don’t reach, but be original. This might take 3-5 minutes to do correctly. Say something to her that no one else has ever said to her before.
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